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How To: Get Her to Dress Hotter

Slip your girlfriend into something more comfortable…for you.

Maxim, May 2005

She’s got the body of a 21st-century fox—and the wardrobe of a 19th-century nun. Getting your girl to give up her turtlenecks and overalls is all about flattery. Here’s what our office lovelies and one expert suggest.

1. Thigh-high Stockings
Spin an elaborate fantasy about meeting her for a drink. She’s wearing a skirt, and you put your hand on her knee. Then, in an amazing move, she slides your hand up north to let you know what she’s wearing. Check, please!

2. Push-up Bra
Rave about her beautiful breasts, and “make sure she knows you think the fakeness of these bras is silly and fun,” says Michon, “not a way of saying she’s inadequate.” In other words, lie.

3. Eye Patch
Over soft music and a bottle of expensive wine, lay out your plans for making Thursday night “Pirate Night.” Arrr!

4. Miniskirt
When she wears a skirt of any length, give her legs an obvious approving look. Then ask if she owns any shorter ones, noting that her legs look fantastic and you’d love to see more of them. Sometimes the truth works.

5. Tight T-shirt
“Just buy her one,” advises Cathryn Michon, author of The Grrl Genius Guide to Sex (With Other People) and a columnist on iVillage.com. She’ll wear it to avoid hurting your feelings. Make sure it’s stretchy; it should cling, not cut off circulation.

6. Backless Shirt or Halter Top
Give her a massage, and compliment all you see, from the small of her back to her shoulder blades. Then point out they’re wasted under all that flannel. Or just say, “Baby, let the tats breathe tonight.”


p/s: theres more to read, i just love this mag!! www.maximonline.com why cant i get hold of this mags here in NZ! bugger!

lust

Woke up today around 11.45am, after breakfast all i do is sit infront of the pc trying to do my assingment! the fucking journal which i've just started is really giving me headaches!haha, but the real problem is not with the journal but the disciplin to really do some research on it using the computer. i've been reading lots of articles today, i come across this article which some may think its really real in the real world! http://www.fluxneo.com/llbarnhart/niceguy.htm
"Nice guys are in trouble! They take seriously what women say they want, and are then left in the cold while these same women choose the very men they say they don't want. After years of being duped by this double-talk, it is time for decent men to see through the rhetoric and to start acting in response to reality. The saying, "nice guys finish last" came into usage for a reason." (Barnhart.L 1994)

The other issue is about Pronography, whats wrong with watching porn? i just dont get it, i saw this letter posted which really caught my attention ;)
" Paranoid? Hell, you're being impossible. Telling a man not to look at porn is like – well, I wanted to say "like telling a stylish woman not to look at cute shoes," except I don't want to have to append a long, rambling footnote reminding readers that women look at porn too." http://www.sfbg.com/39/29/x_alt_sex_column.html

hail

Hail strom happend today at 11.30, ice with the size of golf balls...! i was at work during that time, the thundering sound of ice hitting the roof is unbearable, after awhile your ears are totaly numb!Whoah, never seen such a thing before, not like this..! it did put holes into the shop, we've to put buckets all over the place since it started to leak! snowed fight after that! haha, freaking cold tho!

frailty of man

after the long years of gaining knowledge and experience, man is still weak. weak in a sense of unable to subdue the desires from the heart. when we know certain thing is wrong, but the strong urge that we have in our heart that is provoking a man to sastify its need.

Attachment that we are not able to detach from it, and practice it subconciously.....'why is that' i ask myself; we are not mindful enough to realise what we are doing. mindfulness is something to be practiced, just like martial arts, to master the mind in order to keep away from the ungodly things and to rid of thoughts.

What seems so short but felt so long?
"The waiting game" when your waiting to go back to that someone on the otherside of the world, seems like a thousand years! it also maybe certain event that is not in your favor or things thats not going your way as you expected.
This is not life, i hate this life, im sick of it....... sick of how im living my life. but what ever we do we still have to hold on, no matter how hard it is but we still have got to do it and take the pain. doing nothing is suffering, doing samething everyday is suffering, having done nothing after doing so many things is also suffering, the worst is losing something/someone that you loved. life is about pain and right now im just exposed to it, we humans evolve everyday, getting new insight of a certain level and advancement. no matter how painful is certain thing, we are still accepting it and find a way to live with it. everyone thinks that going overseas is a great experience, yes it is, but its hard when you have to live in a foreign land for a long time.......... you might say that 3 years is an easy task for you, it maybe, when you have no attachment to your desires and emotions. i sometimes find myself lost inside, have no clear mind in what i wanted to be or do. i wonder weather it is something that is to do with the bringing up of a child or influence of the people surrounding. living without a goal, is like floating on a ocean, with no direction, you just keep floating till you hit the sand .

There is so many things in our mind daily, it never once stop thinking. But what is the content of those thoughts? mainly its just plain nonsense, 100% pure rubbish and a total waste of resource. why do we still ask questions when we, ourselves know the answers?? thats what i always do, keep asking questions and asking opinions of others. i admit that im mentally weak and cant make my own firm decisions, after all these years of education. i finally know that there is more to life, knowledge is a useful tool, a passport to the real world, but its not everything, whats important is to live in the present,we cant keep up with the rate of progress and the ever changing development of the country. this is bury deep in our thoughts that higher education = the insurance of a well paying job = paying of debts = a good life.... etc. the real fact is that, fresh graduate is not trained to think out of the box, not trained to solve reallife problems. Anyhow, i dont think i will put any essay argument here on the blog. What happened to "the diary" where we keep underneath the bed or hide it where no one could find?? we are now even asking people to read about our life "come come, read my diary"????

this morning,i was very reluctant to wake up from the bed, it was too good to stay inside dreamland. been dreaming about this girl, 3days straight. ever experience it?? i could actually remember my dream...i dont usually. went to uni at 10.15am and yang was late for class...... we then bugger off for a cup of morning coffee, coz theory of "better late than never......" could not be apply due to the state of lateness and going in to the wrong lecture theater. arghh....!! it was nearly 11 am and my classes was at 11.40 but i didnt went to that comp101 lecture, i dont know why?? but insteadi went for tea with vincent they all down at MRs O's cafe. we chatted about everything, and was talking abt this particular friend..... and it sounded much like my case. that guy was here for his degree but never really attended lectures.....or even done his assignments, all he does is staying at home and watch tv! all the money invested here by the parents is wasted and all the effort, losing his gf and respect of others. but it was such a pity........thats what i thought. i dont want this to happen to me , does anyone? i bet not! its yangs 22nd birthday today, and we are all going out for dinner, but before that i was writing this blog, and my aunt asked me to check her mails for her. i did that and saved her files.......... what happened was, everything i wrote was totally lost! WTF, i was totally pissed at myself, i then took my skateboard and went out, it was dark outside....... skated to the nearby park and did a few rounds and fallen off my board! ha....that was not all, while we were going into the restaurant, i saw a man at his age of 60 or so was having dinner with this petite, nice figured young chinese girl and his hand was on her lap touching her....... i said to myself "what the hell???? what is this? why is she going out with this old chap??" the worst part was, dinner was paid by that girl....... what a shame.... shes going to get the "cane" by this kuai lou, tonight i guess.

around 12.15pm i called back to m'sia and catch up with things..... and that was the end of 19/4/05. its 2 months and 3days pass when i left m'sia. wanted to go home so much.....but i couldnt.cant quit now.

Same shit different day

Wake up in the morning, and its the same routine what we have to go through everyday....... dont you get bored?? sometimes im just sick of my life doing the same old thing over and over again. looking forward to nothing, no goals in life and nothing that you want to achieve? im living in my comfort zone, with a nice place to live in, food is served daily, and a simple life. easy enough, but this is not what i really wanted, i just cant help it. went to work at 3.30pm today, seems like a day with much work (im lovin it) but the same old job makes you kinda bored sometimes! wtf,at least they are paying me. got yelling from the big boss today......it doesnt makes sense to me at all of all the yellings...but it just got me kinda pissed off. hahaha bought a pair of new shoes today for NZD89, its a vans off the walls rowleys..... its pretty good but, it has only got 1 size.. and that sucks! my feet hurts after awhile! arghh!! starting to regret! hahaha....... life is painful (get used to it). tmr is another same old day again!! what is there to look forward to ? Nada, none,zero!...... i think i'll just do my part and get the hell out.
talking to my sweet heart was good..... she waited for me to go online tho. she send me few pics which i always wanted to take a good look at........ haha. she looks so pretty to me...... i wonder when can i see her again? this wait is draining me out.....killing me softly! everyday is just like having a spoon of poison. hope some kinda mircle would happen......

Back to the primitive

When i was 12, i was only addicted to a sport called "basket ball", playing 6 hours aday and spending most of my time there. till the devil called "computer games" being introduce into my life and that was the end of sports. Online gaming is my sport from then on, 4hours is the minimum i spent on the cybercafe. every penny is dump into it to cure for the itch, my grades was from bad to worst, and from worst to hopeless. Now?? its the age of the internet!!! Most of my time is spent here, on cyberspace....... without the "Internet" i find myself living in stone age, wonder what would i do without it. what would you do if there's not such thing as computers?? for me? i think at this moment i would be catching fish by the drain, swim in the nearby river, hangout in shopping malls more often than i usually do, and maybe do sports.
still prefer the kampung life.........