Defeated

what determines that a person is a failure in life? The meaning of being a failure is subjective, but IMHO you're a failure when u think that YOU are. Self defeating negative thoughts, is like a virus; spreading like wildfire when one isn't aware of it, eventually leads to self destruction and fall into deep depression. Suffering in silence where nobody knows it but you, yourself.

life is full of ups and downs, and shit(s) happens all the time without notice. We need to realize that, whatever the results are, it is always the actions that is the Cause. We really do need to take responsible for our own actions and not to lay back and accept the fact you're a failure and life has already failed you, before it even started.